Life is a wonderful path to go through, vibrant, full of colours and adventures. It can give us lovely high moments of truth, happiness and honesty that we will keep forever.
However, suddenly something breaks us apart and we are unable to keep going. There are times when we think we have it all and something makes us realise that is not what we wanted. We may gradually notice that we are less happy, that our lifestyle doesn’t fulfil us, our work is too stressful and unbearable. We might suddenly notice that we are always angry and reactive, and wonder what happened to the woman or man we were, always happy and content. Moreover, we might wonder what happened to our long-forgotten dreams, why we don’t even want to travel any more, why nothing fulfils us, and we end up going back to old memories of our childhood, of all the energy we had and all that was lost on the way.
Sometimes we feel we have made wrong decisions when we were young, based on what we were told was best for us. Maybe we just made them ourselves thinking that that path would take us to happiness through more prestige, higher salaries or more power. We might have been content for years or (most frequently) decades. And then one day your life doesn’t make sense. You feel like going back to your old self, to your childhood dreams and long forgotten projects. But how to start something again? Now you have too many responsibilities (children, university fees, a mortgage, a lifestyle). It seems impossible. Moreover, if you tell your friends or relatives, they laugh at you or even confront you. And you try to keep going with your old lifestyle, feeling miserable and defeated. This is not what you thought life was about. This is not what you want the rest of your life to be.
Motherhood can change your life in so many ways too. For many mums, going back to their old job makes no sense. They feel like it’s time to do something with more significance in life, something to help their community. Or find that long-forgotten dream. And it is such a wonderful time to make that change!
Changes are always possible, never forget that! Small steps at a time, your lifestyle can be totally different after some time, and you will be able to smile again.
But how to make a change? Where to start?
As a life coach, I will endeavour to help you find your own path of truth, to find the way to live in your heart and soul. I am an accredited life coach specialized on midlife crisis, long-forgotten dreams and career change. Using high quality life coaching sessions, I will guide you through a process of self-discovery, to help you find your best self and reconnect with your long-forgotten dreams and goals.
Making small changes will take you through a spiral of positive change (represented by the seashell in my logo), into a new level in your life where you follow your heart and soul. The key of your freedom (represented in my logo) is in your hands!
I am able to help if you are in any of the situations listed below:
- Mid-life crisis
- Lack of motivation
- Lack of self-esteem
- Long-forgotten dreams. Need to recover the girl/boy in you
- Need to make big changes in your life
- Lack of fulfilment
- Need for a career change
- Parenthood has changed you and you need to reprioritize your life and do something with more meaning in life
- You need something new but don’t know what